If you thought Christians in the West and the secularized had problems communicating with one another, I don't know that I can hold out any hope of Islam and the Secular West communicating. Islam will believe (more-or-less correctly) that their culture is under direct assault, and the Secular West will deny that it is doing anything so crass as being "culturally insensitive," and will keep on trying to convert Muslims through the missionaries of television and commerce to the Truth of Secularism, which will free Muslims' minds from their cruel Allah and allow them to embrace economic prosperity and themselves in freedom, "whatever that means for them." Sex, drugs, and rock 'n roll? Good luck.
In other words, I suspect we may have to settle in for a quagmire that will make the simple logistics and lack of national will of the Vietnam War look like a game of Risk.